How Co-Parenting Has Affected My View of Marriage as a Black Woman

I've had my fair share of relationship challenges as a black woman. But it changed everything when my wife and I decided to become co-parents. Not only did it strengthen our relationship, but it also gave me a new perspective on marriage as a black woman.

Co-parenting isn't always easy, but it's worth it. It requires communication, compromise, and willingness to prioritize our child’s needs. And in the process, it's made me more aware of the importance of those same qualities in a romantic relationship. In addition, it’s made me realize that a successful marriage requires more than love; it requires hard work and a commitment to each other's happiness and well-being.

Being a co-parent has also made me more intentional about how I show up in my relationship with my wife. I make a point of listening to her, supporting her, and making time for us to connect, even when life gets busy. And I'm more aware of how my behaviors and attitudes can affect our relationship.

As a black woman, I know that marriage can be a challenging institution. The legacy of systemic racism and sexism has affected how black women are perceived and treated in relationships. But co-parenting has shown me that it's possible to build a strong, healthy, and loving partnership as a black woman. And it's made me even more committed to working hard on my relationship with my wife.

In conclusion, co-parenting has profoundly impacted how I view marriage as a black woman. It's made me more aware of the importance of communication, compromise, and a commitment to each other's well-being. And it's made me work harder on my relationship with my wife, knowing that a successful partnership requires effort and intentionality. As a black woman, I'm proud to say that co-parenting has made me a better partner and a more vigorous advocate for healthy, loving relationships.