Journeying Together Without Role Models

Navigating marriage, pursuing my passion, and aiding others in their journeys has been a profound commitment. My wife and I embarked on this path without the guidance of role models, dedicating ourselves wholeheartedly to personal growth. While it may sound cliché, the foundation of my work rests upon the strength and health of my relationship with my wife and children—a relationship I aim to reflect positively to the broader community I serve.

People often assume that my professional role has made my life easier, but the reality is quite the opposite. When my wife and I first married, we spent our initial years deeply engaged in counseling. Though less frequent now, we continue to prioritize this practice, recognizing that our growth lies within ourselves.

While we are surrounded by many beautiful couples, it's evident that every relationship faces its own challenges. Despite our consistent advocacy for therapy, many still believe they can navigate their struggles alone. Yet, most learn the hard way that enduring relationships require professional guidance and dedicated effort.

The essence of our story is that my wife and I have become our own role models, serving as inspirations for those around us. Challenges arise, particularly during seasons of growth, but our commitment remains. With children depending on our guidance, family members looking up to us, and friends curious about our journey, we find strength in seeking expertise beyond our own and in our unwavering belief in the institution of marriage.

Understanding our limitations, and being Black, adds a unique layer of determination. We recognize the necessity of perseverance—after all, why embark on this journey if not to succeed?