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My Modern Family

August 19, 2020 by Ikeranda Smith in black, black mothers, history, LGBTQIA, life, love, loveislove, marriage, parenting, motherhood

This image impeccably illustrates my life. Uninhabited + varied; yet filled with loads of oxymoron’s coupled with a lot of love. Our life is full of many imperfections; but it just works! I envision somewhere in the near future; we will weep tears of joy witnessing this moment come together. This moment is a flourishing smile from the Universe with an assurance that everything is always working out.

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When my wife decided to move to Atlanta it fractured her nucleus, because sometimes we must rupture the moments in our life that remind us of a life we no longer desire to live. I have always envied remains because usually you end up finding what you truly lost. I have spent days watching my wife shrink in her tears as her spine screams to be seen. It was painful observing her children make sense of our love. I believe that children must learn to crawl from under their parent’s beliefs in order to identify their own shadow. Until then we continue to plant seeds + watch them grow.

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 As we rejoice at this photograph, it is a petition to the Most High, the beginning of us bridging the gap + rebuilding a new, solid foundation. A subtle reminder that love is indeed the highest! Love is a process that is much too big to swallow + needs room to take up space as it matures everyone involved.  I don’t know much but I have learned that when we love ourselves deeply, we ultimately teach others how it should be done.

August 19, 2020 /Ikeranda Smith
family, black family, love, blended family, modern family
black, black mothers, history, LGBTQIA, life, love, loveislove, marriage, parenting, motherhood
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